Tears, sobs, cries.
The serene silence of the hamlet of Lashariwala, a riverside locality in Muzaffargarh, is often broken with sobs and frenetic cries whenever an ambulance arrives there.
By the time, this blog is being written, 16 ambulances have arrived in the village time to time since October 24 to deliver coffins.
The village has buried 16 people of the family of Akram Lashari, a small-time farmer of the locality, since October 24. The deceased include Akram Lashari, his sons, daughters, grandsons, granddaughters and other close relatives.
The 19-member family lived together in a small house.
Of them, 16 died together.
Of them, one deceased is Amjad Lashari. The young man had married his cousin 45 days ago.
The whole death saga originates in this marriage.
On the fateful afternoon of October 24, the whole family sat for the lunch.
That’s how joint families work: they live together, sleep and rise together, and eat and work together.
During lunch, they drank lassi, which had been spiked with poison, by none other than the newly-wed daughter-in-law of the family, who avenged, what she says, her marriage with her cousin, Amjad, against her will.
Just 45 days into marriage, bride Asia Bibi had tried to break the knot through creating disturbance and constant bickering with her in-laws and showing the lack of compatibility with her life partner.
When these antics failed to get her resentment noticed by her family, she, with the help of her boyfriend, planned to kill her husband. She offered her the milk laced with rat killing pills on the eve of October 24. He refused.
The heartless bride later went ahead with her revenge and poured the toxic milk into the curd pot. The next day when the family of Akram Lashari, her father-in-law, sat for a humble, simple lunch, they galloped lassi without knowing that they were taking their last meal.
They fell unconscious one by one; soon they were transported to the nearby Rajanpur District Headquarters Hospital after crossing the mighty Indus on boats. Viewing their life-threatening condition, the hospital referred them to better equipped Nishtar Hospital in Multan and the Dera Ghazi Khan Teaching Hospital. Of the 19 people hospitalised, 14 have died, while five others are fighting for life. We wish the survivors a speedy recovery and offer them heartfelt condolence over mass deaths.
Life will never be the same for the whole helmet.
The hard-hearted bride, who committed the deadly act and has confessed to doing it, does not deserve any sympathy. She is behind bars, and should remain there forever for this world is better off without such bilious people.
The incident, however, should be made a test case so that mass deaths do not happen in the future.
The first and the foremost is that the scourge of forced marriage should be addressed by social scientists, policymakers, and families. The institution of marriage suffers from a number of burning issues, such as cousin marriage, marriage under the exchange of hands or watta satta, marriage for dowry, underage marriage, and forced marriage. These practices have ruined many lives resulting in deaths, suicides, broken families, disturbed children and so on.
Marriage counselling has yet to take root in our society.
These practices may not go away overnight but at least these issues should come under discussions so that the public at large is sensitised about the sanctity of the marriage institution.
Another issue that should not go unnoticed is the easy availability of poison in the open market. A few weeks ago, the media reported the Multan division administration had banned the sale and purchase of kala pathar or paraphenylenediamine after reports that the chemical substance was widely being used in suicide and murder cases. Alone in the Nishtar Hospital emergency ward, 594 people were treated from January to July 2017 for treatment after they drank liquid spiked with the chemical. Besides the Nishtar Hospital, another major health facility in the region, the Victoria Hospital in Bahawalpur, received 109 people from January to March 10, 2016.
A few of them survived the poison attack.
The mass deaths of the Lashariwala hamlet should be used as an opportunity to question tribal and obsolete customs regarding marriage and the trade of poison should be regulated.
No unstable, revengeful person should be allowed to buy the substance.
These measures would serve justice on the deceased and the survivors.